Rap Porn Star Nicki Minaj, Sex Confusion

Rap Porn Star Nicki Minaj
Rap Porn star demands orgasms, pulls virgin card

Nicki Minaj’s recent sexually charged interview in Cosmopolitan Magazine, has everyone talking.  In this article Nicki proclaims-she demands orgasms from men, making the assumption that orgasm disorder and/or frigidity is the “mans” fault.

She also claims, despite her pornographic look and song lyrics that she doesn’t sleep around and advocates long, committed relationships (monogomy).  Some see this as an important issue that needed to be addressed and she successfully did, I disagree-while physical and emotional disassociation in men from excessive access to porn at an early age, circumcision and detached parenting methods of their mothers has bred a new type of hit it and quit it men- to imply that women can demand orgasms, as if it were as easy as that-is truly insulting to all women.

I would like to address Nicki’s article within the light of Orgonomy and Wilhelm Reich’s model for successful human relationships and orgasmic release/surrender.  This is important because the interviewer indicated to Nicki that inability to orgasm is a “pretty common” disorder.

Orgasm is a lot more than just “demanding it” Nicki clearly doesn’t have a clue- I studied Reich and sex psychology for 4 yrs -there are many different levels of orgasms and early childhood sexual and emotional repression is the #1 issue in determining orgasm.

There’s many different issues here- the act of complete surrender/orgasm is based on trust- so for instance in a one night stand- orgasm might or could happen but won’t be as deep or powerful than as between two people who are in love – and Reich proved this by putting electrodes on genitals when people had sex- there’s the fuck and there’s the love – literally.

Nicki, specifically- with her facial reconstruction and her identification with the white race (Rachel Dolezal). The surgical mutilation of her genitals, as in her breasts and buttocks- has a lot of nerve damage and emotional blocking in these areas are meant to entice men pornographically but are also sadsistic/masochistic expressions and cries for help, as with Angelina Jolie (breast amputation, read my article on Angelina Jolie). Some women even use breast implants to appease phallic aspects of their personality as a quest for power, domination and control. None of these things equate to the nurturing and loving aspects breasts should bring to our lives and sexual relations.

So in this case, with the woman sexually obsessed and insecure about her entire physical being coupled with the anxiety of always being judged in the public eye would naturally cause or produce orgasm deficiency or disorder, The level of orgasm would be low in comparison to a woman who felt confident and secure about her physical appearance and loved and accepted by her mate, in this case, the likely hood of being able to relax and release would be more possible.  In the case of sexually inferior women or loveless copulation, low level orgasms are squeezed and pinched out, like a short spasm instead of a bodily wave through the body into “God/universe/orgone.”

Often low level orgasms don’t have complete peak and plateau levels. They peak quickly and drop quickly, leaving the person feeling frustrated and  un-satiated, wanting more and more orgasms- to get the release they need for health.  This type of damned up energy in the body contributes to emotional and psychological disorders and also physical disease.  Orgasm or pleasure anxiety is the #1 character neurosis in our culture and is the cause for – death, marriage, divorce, mental illness, etc.

What About the Hook-Up?

Quite a lot of women complain that men are insensitive to their sexual/emotional needs, I addressed this in the above paragraphs but also want to add that hooking up with these types of people, chronically, meaning the person experiences over and over again, whether in a relationship or not, is more of a testimony to the masochistic aspects of the females personality, where she invites these types of men (a latent transfer of an emotionally disconnected mother/child relationship) into her life because she cannot receive love.  In a macro-cosmic perspective, in terms of American culture which is uniquely Puritanically based you see in our media and our youth (as life imitates art) the schizophrenic split in females which oozes pornographic, harsh and even painful sexuality “look at my big hard tits” “look at my big hard butt” etc, but a more thorough inspection of the character and personality indicates as Nicki does, “I’m not a slut” “I don’t sleep around.” Often these types of declarations can be apart of a lengthy cover-up and lie based on early sexual shaming from the parents, causing them to deny aspects of their sexuality and even black out, in order to maintain some type of parental and religious exceptions, which on some level these individuals realize about themselves.

A very obvious example of this is in the town where I live, a prostitute came and set up shop in the local bars here, she looked like a prostitute as far as our societal ideas and prejudices of what those are: ultra white platinum hair, orange self tanner, platform 6 inch heels, etc. Sadly, she is a mother of three that lost custody of her children because of this lifestyle. The irony of this story is that her entire Facebook page is about being a Christian, praying and God. But what motivates this woman to promote this and seek attention for this is not based on her belief that Jesus loved and accepted prostitutes but the opposite.  It is based on a shame she carries about her life style and so she literally blocks out and develops another personality to help her cope with this lifestyle.

The Rape Culture

So now you see the schizophrenic split in humanity and how it develops from birth and through out all aspects of our culture. On the outside we see and hear pornography, prostitution and abuse – and on the inside the virgin- this is why some teenagers are date raped after being told not to have sex, being told sex is bad and then inviting it through their physical appearance and the subsequent feelings of guilt after, the 50 shades of gray line. I’m not at all saying that rape is the woman’s fault but that in some situations there is clearly a misunderstanding between the two parties. Going home and having sex with a stranger is something that carries into adulthood when there becomes a despondency about human connection along with damned up sexual energy, that needs to be released. The need is there to connect but the ability to truly connect is missing.  Eventually, a disconnection in the brain develops and as Dr. Mona Lisa Schultz book “Awakening Intuition” shows, lab monkeys that had their amygdala’s removed went from being afraid of strangers in white coats that came to take them from their cages to trying to sexually connect with them.

Overwhelmingly, these types of female character structures are what Reich labeled as a “hysteric.”  The classic hysteric seduces and is very sexual but flees emotionally and even physically with sexually contact or deeper emotional contact. The primary and first source of disassociation is loss of contact with the ocular segment (eyes). This means that even though they are moaning and appear to enjoy the sexual situation, inside they are anxious or even afraid, even though they might not-flee physically-you can always tell in the eyes because they either close their eyes or stare through into an emptiness. Therefore, hysterics end up having quite a bit of “oops” sex as they find themselves in situations they cannot easily get out of and can be quite oblivious and completely unaware of how others see and understand them.  Many use drugs to help them connect more and overcome the split they feel inside them but it leads to more feelings of regret and depression later.

Demand Your Orgasm, By Learning More and Healing Yourself!

If you would like to know more about orgasm disorder and orgasm anxiety, please read my book “Beyond Natural Cures” and many other good books Reich wrote on body mind sex psychology. ” Emotional Armoring” by Herskowitz is one of my Favorites.  My personal friend Dr. James DeMeo wrote “Saharasia” an interesting look at the emotional plague of modern culture.  Last but not least visit Psychorgone.com to learn more about this and get updates!

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